[Henrik Karlsson](Everything That Turned Out Well in My Life Followed the Same Design Process):
To find a good relationship, you do not start by saying, “I want a relationship that looks like this.” That would be starting in the wrong end. Instead you say, “I’m just going to pay attention to what happens when I hang out with various people and iterate toward something that feels alive.”
Warning signs
Contempt is death to a relationship.
Signs of contempt:
- Eye rolling